Father’s Day

I have an amazing husband who is a wonderful father. He was an integral part of the birth of both his sons (he calls it catcher), has probably changed as many nappies as me and has endured as many sleepless nights. This, although uncommon, is not to me the most interesting thing about him as a father.

What fascinates me is that he, and men like him, are restoring something lost to masculinity. They still embody the masculine essence of action, equanimity and industry yet they interact in a new (or very very old) way. Instead of leading with fear and aggression as dictators they lead by example as mentors with integrity and nurturing.

From what I can see (and only preliminary research) this is the first time since tribal days that fathers have had such a prominent role in the upbringing and instruction of our children. My hope is that it breeds resilient, compassionate men that wield their might and power to build others up as opposed to tear them down.