Am I sitting on a goldmine?

There is something about children (or is it my children) that attracts people and invites conversation. I have had more random conversations with lovely men as a young mother than I ever did when I was single. And for those that know me personally, no, I am not breastfeeding at the time. Though, that wouldn’t preclude a chat.

Yesterday, waiting for a girlfriend to meet us for a lunch date two fire engines pulled up to the curb. Three year old eyes beside me nearly popped out of of their sockets. The Fireman were off duty and as they passed us to get their lunch, most of then stopped to say ‘hello’. A few of them ushered us over to the engine for a tour.

Let’s not rehash the cliches about men in uniform, ‘manly men’ and firemen. Instead I will stick with the facts; they were cute. Some of them *cough* Fireman Scott & Fireman Rob were more than cute. Actually they were handsome, warm, funny, muscular and good with children.

So, I think I have found a new market. I should hire out my boys to single ladies who could play ‘Auntie’ for an afternoon in the hopes of meeting some nice guys. Seriously though, have you had any similar experiences?

Do you think young mothers are more approachable because they send out a “taken” vibe? Do you think men secretly miss playing games with little boys? Or is it something else entirely? I’d love to hear your thoughts.