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		<title>Rant</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 22:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok, I know I&#8217;m pregnant and therefore a little more volatile emotional. This isn&#8217;t about my pregnancy (one would hope no one ever makes this mistake with me). This is one of those &#8216;unspoken&#8217; injustices that women face whilst pregnant. Something that makes my blood boil. In the US a woman was refused a single [...]]]></description>
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		<title>More certain, not more prepared</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Sep 2010 22:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was a super prepared mum-to-be. Borderline obsessive. My midwife commented a number of times during my labour that I was simply &#8216;too composed&#8217; for a first time Mum. My birth was so tranquil that no one knew when I had hit transition. I had done my homework and yet there were a million things [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Big Scary Adult Stuff</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Sep 2010 22:01:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I clearly remember coining that phrase when I was 20. Big. Scary. Adult stuff. I was faced with the prospect of letting myself truly love for the first time, and I was shitting myself. There was definitely something between us &#8211; but nothing like I had felt for boyfriends before. We danced around it. We let it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Making room at the table</title>
		<link>http://blog.rachaelstott.com/2010/07/making-room-at-the-table/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=making-room-at-the-table</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 00:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.rachaelstott.com/?p=1298</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Standing in the ruins of gender roles, nuclear families and male dominance I am experiencing a backflip that I never would have anticipated. I am a woman. I am a feminist. I am a mother of a son. I love my husband. I have been vocal and active in women&#8217;s issues since I was old enough [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is objectification a prerequisite for sex?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 12:09:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Body Image]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I have no problem with women objectifying men in ads, or men objectifying women in ads. Because, really, the only reason we [humans] are still here after 65 million years, is because someone has been shagging.&#8221;  - The Gruen Transfer. I&#8217;m sorry, did I miss something? Since when was objectification a prerequisite for sex? Is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Uncomfortable bedpartners: Motherhood and Feminism</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 12:11:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Femininity]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is nothing about this subject that isn&#8217;t controversial. Everybody has an opinion. everybody has a mother, everybody knows mothers, everybody has direct experience with working mothers, stay at home mothers and children. Everybody has a vested interest in the next generation being large, healthy and productive members of society. Despite everybody&#8217;s vested interest, we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The gold is spoiling my grass</title>
		<link>http://blog.rachaelstott.com/2010/06/the-gold-is-spoiling-my-grass/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=the-gold-is-spoiling-my-grass</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 13:49:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.rachaelstott.com/?p=1214</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was once told the story of an old man. I have no idea where this story comes from, so if you know let me know so I can attribute it here. This old man is negative, grumpy, set in his ways. He wants more money; everything is expensive, prices are rising and he longs [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Not my usual thing, but it&#8217;s &#8216;unspoken&#8217; so I&#8217;ll say it&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.rachaelstott.com/2010/06/not-my-usual-thing-but-its-unspoken-so-ill-say-it/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=not-my-usual-thing-but-its-unspoken-so-ill-say-it</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 22:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok ladies, it is time to talk about your pelvic floor. Before you freak and go all &#8216;but I&#8217;m not a mother!?#!&#8217; on me listen to this: Your gorgeous stiletto heels &#38;/or your beautiful babies will be the reason you are using Tenna pads at 50. Yup you heard me right. Your shoes, those beautiful peep [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dinosaurs beware! The feminists are coming.</title>
		<link>http://blog.rachaelstott.com/2010/05/dinosaurs-beware-the-feminists-are-coming/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=dinosaurs-beware-the-feminists-are-coming</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 00:15:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So to those people who still believe raising children is less important than spending 8 hours a day in an office cubical - you are a dinosaur. The face of feminism is changing. No longer are women who rally and burn their bras the iconic feminists.]]></description>
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		<title>When did we disown our tears?</title>
		<link>http://blog.rachaelstott.com/2010/05/when-did-we-disown-our-tears/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=when-did-we-disown-our-tears</link>
		<comments>http://blog.rachaelstott.com/2010/05/when-did-we-disown-our-tears/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 13:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.rachaelstott.com/?p=1069</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The energy that moves life is the force of the Feminine. She is unstoppable . . .&#8221; David Deida There is something very feminine about tears. We rarely admit it, but there is something very feminine about tantrums. It is equally feminine to stand chin out, defiant, protecting ourself or someone we love. It is feminine [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The other emotions</title>
		<link>http://blog.rachaelstott.com/2010/05/the-other-emotions/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=the-other-emotions</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 22:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anger I can do. Frustration and I are friends. &#8216;Meh&#8217; isn&#8217;t an emotion, it is more a mode. But you know exactly what I mean when I say that is how I am feeling. The world is ok with the good emotions (for the most part). We can handle the fiery emotions. But we cannot even [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Lets talk about &#8230; My fine line</title>
		<link>http://blog.rachaelstott.com/2010/04/lets-talk-about-my-fine-line/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=lets-talk-about-my-fine-line</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 06:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rae</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a fine line, at least in my pretty little head, between submitting to someone else&#8217;s will and choosing to find happiness in someone else&#8217;s happiness. You might need to read that one again. It is a really, really, fine line. This is a really complicated issue. At least for me. The concept of [...]]]></description>
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