There is a post sitting in my WordPress drafts folder waiting to be posted. Courage isn’t something I lack. I have never been afraid to speak my mind. But something holds me back. My irreverence.
I firmly believe that our experiences as women may be vastly different, but that there are ineffable webs that connect us. I believe, and this has been bolstered by experience, that our internal experiences of the world are similar. I have learned that, more often than not, if there is an aspect of my womanhood that I find stressful that I am not alone. It frustrates me to no end that I have been forced to learn this the hard way.
My experience is largely an open book. When I experience something significant or difficult my natural instinct is to discuss it in order to understand it. I work hard to let go of (cultural) shame or guilt I feel, especially when I have done no wrong. As a result subjects that are not ‘polite’ to discuss don’t bother me in the least. In fact the double standards of what it is acceptable for men to discuss in comparison to the many natural and normal subjects it is considered unacceptable for women to discuss outages me.
So my question to you is this;
Are we ready to discuss the aspects of our inner lives that have been shushed until now? Or am I simply irreverent?
The more feedback I get the easier it will be to decide whether to publish the post languishing in my drafts.
Tags: Connection, Decisions, Feedback, Inspiration, Judgement, Observations, Personal Growth, Support, Trust
Need you ask at all!
I can’t wait for whatever is coming!!!
Thank you Katie Lee. You, like myself, have never shied away from experience simply because it is considered unbecoming
Thanks for your support.
Better out than in goes the saying – sometimes however it can depend on the subject material… if it will hurt someone or upset them then obviously that is out of bounds but if it’s just difficult or awkward then those are the things that should be out in the open.