I agree, too many times we let the “idea” of love become greater than the act/feeling/showing of love itself. With the saturation of “ideal love” in our mainstream world we can spend a lifetime waiting for those Hollywood moments or holding everyone at arms length to save ourselves from the pain, but at the end of the day pure love is the greatest thing to be experienced within our little human existence.

As for tears, sweat or messy hair, I think that means you are doing it exactly right!